Ordinary People vs. Extraordinary Minds

There’s nothing typical about writers.

In the 1984 satirical sci-fi film “Repo Man,” there’s a memorable scene where repo men played by Harry Dean Stanton and Emilio Estevez observe a conflict between some frustrated suburbanites and a tow truck driver. Stanton quips, “Ordinary people. I can’t stand them.” Estevez agrees, echoing his sentiments.

I resonate more with the outcasts: the rebels, the misfits, and the nonconformists. While I appreciate individuality, I prefer that your eccentricities remain your own. Ordinary lives, filled with trivial joys like essential oils and suburban bliss, simply give me the creeps.

The Writing Community Experience

A few years back, I realized that Twitter could connect me with other writers. This wasn't a groundbreaking revelation; it was more of a "Well, of course!" moment. I discovered the #WritingCommunity hashtag and thought I’d found a treasure trove of like-minded individuals.

However, my experience was less than fulfilling. While many may rave about their supportive writing circles, my journey felt more like an absurd comedy skit. Imagine being in a room where others bask in the glow of creativity while you’re stuck in a corner, recounting absurd experiences that lack the warmth of shared understanding.

I dove into the #WritingCommunity, hoping to engage with real writers. What I encountered was a cycle of aspiring authors trying to garner attention for books they hadn’t yet written. The atmosphere was charged with desperation, and I found little joy in the condescension that followed.

As a quintessential introvert, I often prefer solitude over social gatherings. Yet, social media offers a unique refuge, allowing me to connect with fellow oddballs without the awkwardness of face-to-face interactions.

Seeking Enlightening Conversations

After expressing my frustrations with the writing community, I aim to clarify my intentions. I’m not interested in typical writer discussions—work habits, agents, or in-progress projects. Instead, I yearn for enriching conversations about genuine passions.

The term "writer" is too broad and lacks specificity. It’s like trying to form a club for left-handed people who dislike cilantro—too many variables exist.

In an episode of “Comedians in Cars Getting Coffee,” Jerry Seinfeld discusses valuing the finer things in life, while Neil Brennan emphasizes that his sole interest lies in ideas.

This distinction resonates with me. I’m less impressed by eloquence and more captivated by groundbreaking concepts. The real magic of writing, to me, lies in its ability to challenge perspectives and inspire change.

The Potential of New Ideas

Great writing transforms thoughts, nudging readers toward new ways of seeing the world. For me, the most valuable aspect of reading is uncovering fresh ideas, whether they provide a new lens on familiar issues or present entirely original thoughts.

I seek these enlightening ideas through various mediums—books, articles, and even academic journals. The journey can feel like searching for a needle in a haystack, yet the occasional discovery can be profoundly rewarding.

So, if you resonate with my pursuit, I encourage you to keep seeking out these transformative ideas. They hold immense value.

In this first episode titled "What IS The Big Idea, Robert G. Lee?", the host explores the concept of innovative thinking and its impact on creativity.

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