Chapter 1: The Comfort of Excuses

We all tend to cling to our excuses as reasons why we can't do something. However, the truth is not that we are unable, but rather that we choose not to act. We often hear uplifting stories of individuals overcoming challenges and making the most of their circumstances, and we think, "I really have no valid excuses." Yet, moments later, we retreat back under the comforting cover of our self-imposed limitations, which quietly drain the joy from our lives, leading us to merely exist instead of truly live.

Is this the outcome you want? For your excuses to triumph? Consider doing it for your loved ones—be it your children, siblings, or anyone you care about. You hold influence over others, and that influence can extend outward like a chain, connecting us all. Our collective strength depends on each individual’s contribution, and when you choose to live in a world of excuses, we all suffer.

Do you want to model that kind of behavior for those who look up to you? That it's acceptable to not fulfill your commitments? While we may not have a formal agreement, from the moment you took your first breath, your journey has been intertwined with others. We share this planet, and your actions have significance.

We've been misled into thinking competition is beneficial, but the truth is that we thrive best when everyone gives their utmost. I’m not expecting a world where everyone fully participates, but I sincerely hope that those reading this consider the profound impact they can have on others, including my daughters, and choose to take action.

I find inspiration in the dedication of various writers on this platform. Many of them write on topics unrelated to mine, yet their consistent presence motivates me to show up with reliability.

Remember, your excuses not only affect you, but they also impact those around you. Think of all the innovations and ideas that have been lost to a mindset of excuses.

Would you want those excuses to be the ones speaking at your memorial, recounting the falsehoods that held you back, while the opportunities you could have embraced mourn silently in the background, longing for their moment? They never had a chance because you didn’t invest in yourself and let your potential shine.

I have a simple message for you: STOP IT.

It’s time to stop making excuses.

Excuses often carry a hint of truth, but you have the power to sharpen your perception and see beyond them. Together, we can overcome this. You, me, and everyone—let’s commit to progress and improvement, not perfection. Take it step by step, day by day.

Until next time,

~ Deola

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